Today, my visit to Bill included watching him get his PT. They are trying to keep him mobile and make him more comfortable at the same time. He's leaning to the left and hunching which is hurting his back, hips and legs. First, they made him do some arm work. He is, and has always been, good at arm work.
Then, on to the legs, which are his biggest challenge. The therapist did some stretching of his legs first. I was very impressed with her technique and kindness. He continues to yell, "Help me, help me, oh please help me." throughout the day, including during PT. When they ask him questions, he answers appropriately; then goes back to his "recording."
It was decided that they need to place some cushions under his butt and next to his left side to position him better in his chair. That was a feat! It took three ladies almost 20 minutes to get it done, but they did. They calmly talked him through each step as he repeated, "help me, help me" over and over again. Again, I was impressed with their ability to handle him. They were firm, but kind as they "encouraged" him to do what needed to be done.
By the time we got back to the memory care unit, he was exhausted. He immediately fell asleep in his chair. I waited awhile, hoping he'd wake up; but no, he's was out for the count. I finally left, grateful that he was comfortable, at least for the moment.
All in all, it was a good visit. I was able to observe how the PT staff work—not just with Bill, but with other patients too. Their professionalism and kindness stood out.
We also discussed trying to get the VA to provide him with a custom wheel chair. That’s my next goal. Navigating the VA system isn’t easy, but I’m determined to try again.
Interestingly, this is a VA Memory Care facility (Richard A Anderson Texas State Veteran's Home), but it's been privatized. And, the company that runs it and the VA don't communicate! So, I’ll need to make Bill an appointment at the Michael DeBakey VA hospital, where VA doctors can evaluate what kind of wheelchair he qualifies for. The RA Anderson Home will provide the transportation; I just need to meet him there.
So, here's to keeping my fingers crossed that it won't take an act of congress to get what we need!
I have confidence in your ability to get things done!
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